I was sitting at a café next to a very pregnant woman. She was drinking her third cup of coffee in a row, and the sight gnawed at me until I couldn’t keep quiet. “Think about your baby!” I blurted out, unable to hold back my concern. She turned sharply, eyes flashing with anger. “Are you an idiot?” she snapped. “I’m not pregnant—I’m a surrogate.”
Her words struck me silent. I hadn’t expected that. She set her cup down and leaned back, her expression hard but trembling at the edges. “People see a belly and assume they know the whole story,” she said bitterly. “The truth is, the family I’m carrying for just told me they might not be ready to take the child. I’ve done everything right, carried this baby with love, but now I don’t even know what will happen when it’s born.”
I felt my cheeks burn with shame. Here I was, a stranger, quick to judge without knowing anything of her pain. “I’m sorry,” I whispered. “I didn’t mean—” She cut me off gently this time, her voice quieter. “I know. People rarely mean harm. But assumptions wound deeper than they realize. Sometimes the heaviest part of carrying a child isn’t the body—it’s the uncertainty of what comes after.”
We sat in silence, the clink of cups and low murmur of the café surrounding us. For the first time, I noticed how tired she looked, how her hands trembled slightly as she held the warm mug like it was the only anchor she had. I left that café with a lesson heavier than coffee: never assume you know someone’s story. Behind every glance, every gesture, there might be a hidden battle—and what people need most isn’t judgment, but compassion.