I’d been counting down the days to my grandson Jake’s first baseball game, buzzing with pride. But the night before, my daughter-in-law Bethany called: “Only parents are allowed. League rule.” Disappointed, I believed her.
On game day, my neighbor Patty texted me a photo of Jake mid-swing — with grandparents in the stands. Including Bethany’s parents. Turns out, the “rule” was a lie. Later, my son Lewis admitted Bethany thought I’d be “too much” with my cheering and glittery sign, and that her parents felt I wasn’t “their level.” The truth cut deep.
Weeks later, Bethany called at dawn — Jake was sick, high fever, and her parents “didn’t want to risk it.” He was asking for me. I went without hesitation. Sitting by his bed with a cool cloth, he whispered, “I wanted you at my game. Mommy said you had important things to do.” My heart broke and healed all at once.
Before I left that day, Jake handed me a baseball signed by his whole team. “I wanted you to have mine,” he said. That ball now sits by my late husband’s photo — a reminder that being present matters more than any “level” or perfect image. Next time they try to sideline me, I’ll remember: I’m Jake’s safe place, his number-one fan, and nothing will keep me off his team again.