My date, Mark, seemed promising at first — tall, polite, and punctual. But as soon as we sat down, the red flags started waving. He bragged endlessly about his gym routine, meal prep, and “discipline.” When I ordered truffle gnocchi, he smirked and said you could “tell someone’s self-respect by what’s on their plate.” I laughed it off, but I felt my patience thinning.
Things got worse when the dessert menu arrived. Before I could touch it, Mark slammed it shut and told the waiter, “She’ll pass. I like skinny women.” My stomach dropped, but instead of shrinking, I straightened up. Smiling, I told the server I’d like to buy desserts for the two older women sitting behind us. Their faces lit up as I joined their table, leaving Mark to his lonely grilled fish.
The three of us toasted with wine and shared tiramisu, panna cotta, and an affogato while laughing loud enough for half the restaurant to hear. Mark sat fuming, ears red, as Elaine, one of the women, raised her glass and said, “Men like that? Not worth your mascara.” The entire section chuckled when I told them, “If he flirts when I leave, just say you like chocolate.”
I walked out glowing — not from Mark’s approval, but from choosing dignity over his control. Two days later, the server messaged me: “Still thinking about that tiramisu moment. Legend behavior.” And he was right. Because it wasn’t just about dessert. It was about refusing to shrink — not my body, not my appetite, not my voice — to fit into someone else’s idea of “worthy.”