At seventeen, I thought hard work was enough. My father, Greg, didn’t offer guidance—just terms. “No grade below A-minus,” he said, sliding a folder across the table like a contract. The day I got a B in Chemistry, he pulled my college fund and called it business.
So I started over—with a job, financial aid, and no safety net. I worked long shifts, studied harder, lived in a cramped apartment that was fully mine. Meanwhile, Greg bragged at family dinners about tuition he didn’t pay. I stayed silent for a while, thinking survival meant peace—but silence began to rot.
Then came the Fourth of July, and he performed again for our relatives. I put down my fork and said, “Why ask him? I’m the one paying for college.” The table fell quiet. “He pulled my college fund over a B,” I added. Later, when he hissed that I humiliated him, I said, “No—you did that yourself.”
Now, the floors creak, and the radiator groans—but it’s mine. I stir my mom’s pasta sauce and whisper, “Hey Mom, I’m making the sauce.” I’ve changed my major to psychology—I want to help people feel seen. No more control. No more lies. Just me, rebuilding everything he tried to own.