After years of chasing my childhood dream of becoming an architect like my father, I finally landed an interview at the very firm he once worked for. I moved back to my hometown, filled with hope, grief, and memories. On the morning of the interview, I was full of nerves but determined to make him proud. I held onto his words, reminding myself of his belief in me—until I stepped into the interview room and saw the last person I ever wanted to face again: my estranged mother, Linda.
The shock of seeing her—after all the pain she’d caused by cheating on my father, who later died alone of a heart attack—unleashed years of repressed grief and anger. We argued viciously in the office, dredging up our past in front of stunned coworkers. I stormed out, devastated that the very place I’d dreamt of working now felt tainted by her presence. The weight of unresolved trauma and betrayal came crashing down on me, shaking the foundation of everything I thought I knew.
Later that evening, Linda showed up at my apartment, offering me the job anyway. I slammed the door in her face, refusing to accept what I saw as charity. But she didn’t leave. She revealed long-hidden truths: she and my father had separated months before his death, and he had been unfaithful too. She showed me the divorce papers and admitted they’d both kept it from me to protect my image of him. I was stunned, left questioning my entire past and the version of events I had clung to for years.
As I sat with the truth—and with Linda, who was no longer just the villain in my story—I began to see the pain she had carried too. Maybe there was room for forgiveness, or at least understanding. And maybe, just maybe, the dream I had followed my whole life wasn’t truly mine, but my father’s. In that moment, I realized I needed time to decide what I wanted—not just from the job, but from my life.