When I graduated high school, my parents made it clear they didn’t support my dream of studying graphic design. They pushed me to choose a “real” college path in business or marketing, dismissing art as a hobby, not a career. When I insisted on art school, they told me I couldn’t live under their roof if I pursued it. So, at 18, I packed my bags and left, determined to prove myself on my own.
The first few years were tough. I juggled coffee shop shifts, waiting tables, and took freelance design gigs whenever I could. I barely scraped by, living in cheap motels and tiny rentals, surviving on instant noodles and sheer determination. But I never gave up on my craft, pouring my heart into every design. Eventually, a nonprofit poster I made went viral in the local community, bringing in paying clients and slowly turning my passion into a business.
With hard work and a small grant, I upgraded my tools and took on bigger projects, including a major rebranding for a restaurant chain. That project was a breakthrough, leading to more clients and steady income. By 23, I was running my own design company, Riley Creative Solutions, with a small office in the arts district — proof that my “fantasy” could be a real and successful career.
Years later, my parents showed up unexpectedly, seeking my help with missing person posters. They apologized for how they’d treated me and admitted they were proud now. I listened calmly and showed them a digital art piece representing our fractured relationship — beautiful but distant. I told them I no longer needed their approval and had found my own worth. As they left, I finally felt peace, knowing I’d lived my truth and won on my own terms.